Couple Therapy

Do the Foursome. Arrange a double date with another couple. Make sure it’s a new couple you’ve just met; don’t pick from your existing roster of friends and office mates. Go on a double dinner date or arrange a friendly badminton game. Think of it as a little science experiment. You’ll learn little things from the couple-the way they treat each other, how they give each other some valentine gifts, and even new activities they’re into. Sometimes, being surrounded by the same group of friends is what contributes to your life’s mundane routines. There’s nothing wrong with meeting new people.

Play Dress Up. Give in to a little kink. For one date, surprise your man by dressing up as a totally different personality. You don’t have to go over the top by renting out costumes. Wear your hair totally different with your sexy perfume on, put on new makeup shades and dress in a sexy (or conservative, if you’re the opposite) outfit you don’t normally wear. Your man will be so intrigued, it’s like he’s dating a new girl. Who knows, he may even return the favor on your next date by dressing up as that hot celeb you’re crushing on.

Try Something New. Create new experience together. Maybe try rock-climbing or go sky-driving together. New experiences can bring you closer together. Set new experiences weekend once a month, it can be as big as going bungee-jumping or as small as picking out flowers for the Vday. Either way, it will create new exciting and memorable moments.

Live Outside The Relationship. Don’t forget to get a life outside of your relationship. Don’t forget about the YOU before he came along. Reconnect with old pals and all the other extra-curricular activities that you used to do. Having time for your personal life will give you a sense of self, and will even make you look forward to spending quality time with your lover.